kwanza: chagua ni njia gani unahitaji kutumia ili kuoa au kuolewa,,je ni ndoa ya kanisani,mahakami au ya ni ya kimila? kwa kujua ndoa ni ya aina gani itakusaidia kupanga mambo mengi yahusuyo ndoa hiyo.
pili:chagua ni siku gani unataka harusi ifanyike na kumbuka kuangalia seasons ambazo zinaweza kuaffect hiyo siku mfano christmas day na nyinginezo,na hii inabidi ijadiliwe na patner kuondoa utata utakaojitokeza.
Budget:ni muhimu kujua unataka kufanya harusi ya shilingi ngapi inasaidia sana katika kujua idadi ya watu na ukumbi gani.
chagua ukumbi kulingana na idadi ya watu,,
kama umeamua ni harusi ya watu 200,,tengeneza list ya hao watu mapema ili kujua ni akina nani watakaohuduria harusi yako
chagua nani atakua bridesmaids, best man and ushers.
Look for your wedding attire
chagua mpiga picha nzuri unayempenda kwa ajili video na steel picture
Arrange transport kwa ajili ya harusi
chagua preson incharge and mc kwa ajili ya kusherehesha shughuli With a toastmaster, you can relax and forget about organising the reception events yourself.
tafuta wanamuziki wazuri wa kusherehesha sherehe
SIX MONTHS TO GO
Order Wedding Invitations
Discuss hymns and music with your minister, and prepare your order of service.
FOUR MONTHS TO GO
Send out invitations
Order the Order of Service sheets with your stationer
THREE MONTHS TO GO
Check that your banns or licence applications are in
Confirm your honeymoon
Order last minute stationery such as place cards, napkins
Gifts for your attendants
Start your beauty routine with your beauty consultant
ONE MONTH TO GO
Confirm your guest list from the invitation replies (duplicate copy for the reception to prepare the table plan) and start filling out the place cards
Arrange the final fitting(s) for dresses
Confirm the details with all your wedding service suppliers
Notify your bank or building society, and others of the pending change in your name
TWO WEEKS TO GO
Relax - have your stag and hen parties. No you won't be called a coward for having them early. These are important parties, and there may be some friends and family members who are unable to attend your wedding day that can make it to these events. It is well worth inviting them
ONE WEEK TO GO
Pack your honeymoon bags and hide them well
Collect hired outfits
Take delivery of your wedding cake, or arrange safe delivery to the reception
See your beauty consultant, have a manicure and massage
ON THE DAY
Start with an early bath. Give yourself plenty of time. Have a healthy breakfast
Hair and make-up
Take delivery of Flowers
Arrange for your luggage (and your car) to be taken to the hotel by a trusted friend or relative
Get to the ceremony on time